Tamara Rasheed teaches aspiring influencers who are breaking free from their traumatic past how to heal from, brand, and market their story personally and professionally in 8 weeks. Ms. Rasheed is an 8X best selling author of personal development, personal finance, and children’s books, including her #1 best selling book Breaking Free: Transform Your Business and Shift Your Family’s Life Into Abundance. As a transformational speaker, mentor, and coach, Ms. Rasheed helps people find their purpose and passions so that they can create and achieve the vision of life that they want.
No matter how difficult things became for me, I was able to plant seeds and learn what I needed to do to create the life I wanted to live. This was not something that I was taught. It was something I had to discover by taking risks, by being a non-participant in what did not work for me (which netted me a lot of dirty looks and lost many friends along the way), and required me to go at a pace that was different from everyone else’s.In my cultural experience, POC know the opposite of this best as, “My people perish for lack of knowledge.”
I took this phrase so literally that my goal became, as a coach, to help people live their best life. If the only reason why you’re perishing is because you don’t know you are, then someone has to give you the knowledge you need so that you can apply it and live. You can live a very comfortable life on the outside that is terribly uncomfortable on the inside. This is what doing what everyone else is doing feels like. Someone has to let you know what you’re missing out on. That is a big responsibility. It is a heavy burden that brings me tremendous joy when people share with me the shifts they’ve experienced in their own lives because of something I taught them. Because of Breaking Free and creating their own yes.
As I write this, I am not only doing this to document my own FIRE journey, (Financial Independence, Retire Early), I am planting seeds for every person who has experienced trauma and who desires to heal their own life through the eight dimensions of wellness.
As you read this blog from a place of trauma, know that your trauma will do it’s best to make this journey seem impossible. It took me 20 years to get to this point where I have a clear understanding of what is required of me. I am healing so that you can too. The hardest part is going to be conquering your mindset and everything that people told you was true, that actually isn’t true at all. I won’t lie to you and pretend that it will be easy. I won’t tell you, like some guru, that following these steps will lead you exactly to where you need to be, because like me, you have so many areas that need healing and you may only find a few of those answers here. I’ve traveled a long way and I still understand that I have a long ways to go. Like my Sigung says in my martial arts school, “When you become a black sash, you realize you’re just a white belt and a punch is just a punch.”
I have etched out a roadmap not only to create money when there is none, but to find healing, break destructive patterns, and give you what I found to give myself peace of mind. I can’t give you the innate abilities that I have been given to discover these steps. What I can do is give you tools that you can use to discover your next steps yourself. Traditional money management has not worked for me. I either made far too little money to budget, I had money coming from so many directions that budgeting was confusing, or just tracking what I did to live every day was very challenging because I wasn’t always certain where money would come from.
Traditional money management is made for people who have a 9 to 5 job. Since I don’t have a 9 to 5, my approach to the FIRE movement may be different than what you would see in other blogs. My hope is to assist you in your growth by giving you techniques that, when applied, will help you reach your goals. I became interested in the FIRE movement in 2019 after joining personal finance groups and reading about the movement. I was immediately intrigued and inspired by the thousands of women who had taken control of their financial wellbeing and the resources they shared freely among one another. While I had a great deal of knowledge about personal credit, I did not have a good foundation for money management. I began compiling a list of books that were recommended for beginners in the Financial Independence (FI) movement and doing extensive research.
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